Sunday, July 21, 2013

SUCCESS!!

Greetings MADKAP blogospherians.  Great news to share with all of you, although it's not yet truly official in debit and credit posting terms.  Not dissimilar to a presidential election or half-time at a Vanderbilt football game (pre-James Franklin era, of course), we're calling this one early.  Donations have exceeded $24K, and two checks are in transit that will take us over the $25K mark....which very importantly ensures a doubling of funds raised courtesy of WKU's matching.  $50K+!

This is a tremendous collective achievement for all of us and will have a significant impact on the program going forward.  As noted in eMail, please know that my gratitude and appreciation represents the same from The Kellys, Dr. Boman and KAP leadership, KAP mentors, and scores of KAP students present and future.  The impact is long-term and meaningful.  Thank you.

Also, in a few weeks, I will be able to share additional news with you re: even greater impact that the MADKAP initiative is fueling.  Stayed tuned for big news.

In closing, a little fun reviewing the cities represented by MADKAP donations.  Again, a sincere thank you to you all.

TENNESSEE:
  • Nashville
  • Franklin
  • Brentwood
  • Clarksville
  • Murfreesboro
  • Spring Hill
  • Sevierville
  • Dickson
  • Knoxville
  • Goodlettsville
  • Chattanooga
  • Nolensville
  • Gallatin
  • Duck River
  • Antioch
  • Winchester
  • New Johnsonville
  • Memphis
  • Pleasant View
  • Kingston Springs
KENTUCKY:
  • Bowling Green
  • Lexington
MICHIGAN:
  • Birmingham
  • Canton
  • Rochester Hills
  • Livonia
  • Warren
GEORGIA:
  • Atlanta
  • Dunwoody
  • Roswell
FLORIDA:
  • Lithia
  • Longwood
  • Jacksonville
  • Wellington
  • Orlando
  • Naples
  • Fort Meyers
NORTH CAROLINA:
  • Ronda
ARIZONA:
  • Phoenix
COLORADO:
  • Castle Rock
  • Foxfield
ALABAMA:
  • Moody
  • Birmingham
NEW YORK:
  • Huntingdon
WASHINGTON:
  • Bellevue
INTERNATIONAL:
  • Sydney, Australia (Ryb, good on ya, mate)
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Tuesday, June 4, 2013

MADKAP Featured In KAP's Spring '13 Newsletter

Greetings.  KAP was kind enough to include an article that I wrote re: the MADKAP scholarship fund-raising initiative in its most recent quarterly newsletter.  Here it is....thanks!

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Why would someone run four half marathons in four straight weekends?  Surely they'd have to be madcap.  And in a way that's right….it's an active effort of Making A Difference for Kelly Autism Program.  MADKAP!  As the associated blog states, I'm Jeff….Nashville resident, WKU Dad, and Friend of KAP.  My son, Ryan, is concluding a very successful freshman year as a Hilltopper, and a significant part of that success can be directly attributed to the services and care provided by the KAP community.  As part of MADKAP, we're literally taking the KAP name to the streets - half marathons in Nashville (4/27), Cincinnati (5/5), Paducah (5/11), and Chattanooga (5/18) - to actively promote KAP by increasing awareness of the program and generating financial support.  We're specifically seeking to raise $25,000 to be used as an endowment to create self-sustaining scholarships for KAP's college students.

It can be challenging enough to pay for higher education even before considering KAP's fees.  But without the helpful resources, nurturing environment, and tailored services provided by KAP, paying for college might be a moot point for some students.  Without KAP, they would be much less likely to obtain the support necessary to obtain a college education.

So, as stated, we're making a difference, and we're doing so by generating funds that will have a lasting impact.  Perhaps the best part?  If we can raise $25,000, then WKU will match our efforts and we'll effectively raise $50,000 for KAP scholarships.  And there's lots of room on this figurative road…please join us in being a part of raising both awareness and additional funding.  http://madkap2013.blogspot.com


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Sunday, June 2, 2013

KAP Profile - Ryan H (Student)

As we start the final month of the 2013 MADKAP initiative, it seems fitting to introduce one of the central characters in this ongoing play....my son, Ryan.  Ryan is a big-hearted guy with a knack for imitating and quoting seemingly anything/everything.  His Asperger's diagnosis was rendered at ~4yo.  Thanks to many great resources both within and in addition to Ryan's schools, he completed elementary and secondary education without the assistance of classroom aides and earned a diploma from one of the US's top 50 public schools, Hume-Fogg Magnet High School (HFA).

As his Dad - and admitting the obvious bias - I'm a big fan of Ryan, love his good-hearted nature, and am ever thankful that he is part of an academic community that truly feels like home away from home to him.  Given that I could write a novel about the young man, what I'd like to do is ask if you, as MADKAP supporters, would like to know some specific things about Ryan - initial diagnosis, therapy, schooling, home life, etc. - and I'll gladly add a follow-up article.  Please post a comment if so.

That said, onward....we'll let the folks from KAP provide a brief introduction and then share some Q&A with Ryan.

Introduction by KAP:  Ryan is finishing his freshman year at WKU and has really enjoyed the opportunity to live independently on a college campus.  Ryan has become a staff favorite due to his witty personality and humor.  He is a hard worker and very dedicated to his studies.  KAP especially enjoys Ryan's participation in our video game nights.  He keeps the whole group entertained with his enthusiasm and love of games.  KAP has really enjoyed seeing Ryan grow during his first year and we look forward to many more!

Q:  What year are you at WKU and what is your major?
Ryan H:  I just completed my freshman year and I am currently undeclared.

Q:  Where are you from?
Ryan H:  I am from Nashville, Tennessee.

Q:  Will you tell us a bit about you?
Ryan H:  I have one sister, Anna, and a miniature dachshund, Sofi.  I do my best to stay ahead of the game in school by taking lots of notes on my netbook during classes.  While I do work hard, I also like to relax.  A relaxed mind is a healthy mind.  I have enjoyed all of the schools I've attended - Julia Green Elementary, Meigs Magnet Middle, and HFA....and now WKU.  It's something I'm very thankful for.

Q:  Why did you select WKU?
Ryan H:  I picked WKU because of KAP.  KAP was like the ultimate accommodation for someone of my needs.  KAP allows me time to get away from my normal environment and get into a place that is meant for work.  I even have my own office for studying!

Q:  When you think of yourself as someone who lives with Asperger's Syndrome, what does that mean to you?
Ryan H:  It means that I need a few more accommodations to perform comfortably in academic terms.

Q:  How would you describe your experience transitioning from home to college?
Ryan H:  I was very reluctant at first....very reluctant.  At first it was very lonely, but after a week I started feeling better.  Going to any college is going to be a very lonely thing because everything you know is gone.  Getting used to campus and learning where things were helped, and KAP helped me transition into it as well.

Q:  What are your biggest challenges with college?
Ryan H:  Keeping up with all the work.  And the initial change in environment took time to get used to.  Trains running by the dorm made it difficult to get into a normal sleep pattern.  Everyone has been really nice to me at WKU.

Q:  What does KAP provide for you?
Ryan H:  KAP provides more time to work.  They provide instructional help when I need it.  And people who I can trust and talk to.

Q:  What do you want to do with your education after you graduate from WKU?
Ryan H:  Perhaps something with voice work or acting - like the video game industry - and contribute to an industry that was a big influence during my childhood.

Q:  What are your hobbies and favorite things to do?
Ryan H:  Playing video games is the biggest one.  I love my dog....I miss her greatly when I'm at school.  Hanging out with friends.  I enjoy movies, especially funny ones (and hate ones with no coherent plot).  I enjoy being able to go on vacation since I don't have many opportunities to do that now that I'm in college.

Q:  What do you most want potential supporters of KAP to know?
Ryan H:  Without the program, it would be a lot harder to be motivated to work hard.  Getting stuff done is a lot easier with them around.  It'll take time and it'll take effort, but I will be able to graduate from college with KAP's assistance.  It would be a lot harder without KAP.  I honestly think this program should be expanded into more schools because of how it helps people like me get our work done and remain hard-working students.  I was lucky enough to live close to this program, but more people need it.  I am certain that graduation rates would increase if this program was in every college in America.


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Sunday, May 26, 2013

MADKAP Donor Wall - 5/26/2013

Wanted to take a moment to recognize everyone who has contributed to the MADKAP initiative to help support the Kelly Autism Program (KAP) community.  Thank you for your generosity and support...it is significant and, as the name indicates, is making a difference.  If I have erroneously omitted your name from this list, PLEASE let me know and I will correct that as quickly as possible....any omissions are simply related either to clerical errors (mine) or timing of official postings (certain types of contributions encounter longer processing delays).  In no particular order other than likely, estimated contribution dates:

Linda and Brad H
Steve H
Suzanne E
Cadine N
Lori S
Buddy K
Kim C
Sam C
Cosmin C
Roy S
Cynthia H
Mike C
Sean G
Krystal K
Steven K
Margaret K
David P
Hank L
Chuck S
Amy T
Stephen S
Alex E
Amy H
Paul B
Michael C
Scott S
Matt T
Carl N
Sonny C
Caroline F
Jason T
John L
Beth and Brent B
Don and Carol P
Jesse E
Andy L
John F
David L
Quailla H
Dawn R
Erin G
Curt and Dana C
Chad F
Paul R
Mark E
Edmund M
Ron D
Irene F
Darin M
Ted B
Carolyn P
Bruce E
Matt H
Tom C
Tim L
Armando Q
Richard H
Fred and Sue B
Jim and Dale K
Glenn J
Jason E
Brian S
Tom C
Fred M
Beth H
Michael C
Jason P
John R
John A
Mike K
Amy W
Jack R
Vince H
Todd R
Michael S
Susan S
Web W
Connie C
Steve J
Ellen W
Andy G
Ken K
Gary W
Sharon K
Julie H
Steve and Lisa S
Bill S
Elinor E
Juanita M
Hank L
Robert R
Bob C
David O
Carol P
David O'
Grant J
Bonnie G
Rich and Marsha G
Robert B
Brian and Sarah V
Randy C
Steve H (again)
Jesse E (again)
Dawn R (again)
Jim and Dale K (again)
Aimee S
Brandon P
Linda and Brad H (again)
Henry and Ann P
E. A. D
James and Adele Y
Melynda R
John and Urla W
Tamela A
Jeffrey H
David P (again)
Janice and H.D. W
Billy and Mary D
Debbie C
Elizabeth P
J. Charles T

Thank you everyone!
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MADKAP Fund-Raising Update - 6th Hurdle Cleared!

Greetings.  Just a brief post to let you all know that we have cleared the 6th (of 8) fund-raising hurdles and are beyond the $18,000 mark.  A sincere thank you for your generosity and support!  Please share the word with your circle of friends....there are ~35 days remaining to reach the $25,000 mark....and thereby double the impact of our fund-raising by earning WKU's match of an additional $25,000.  Many thanks!
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Sunday, May 19, 2013

"Final Four" - Rock/Creek Scenic City Trail 1/2 Marathon - 5/18/2013

Not dissimilar to the Sesame Street song, one of these things is not like the other.  In this case, it would be the trail half marathon....the last of MADKAP's four half marathons in four consecutive weekends and the only one off-road.  Chattanooga's Raccoon Mountain provided the landscape for this effort.  Now, depending on the course, a trail half is 50% running and 80% surviving.  And yes, that's bad math, but it's accurate math.  Mud, rocks, puddles, downed trees, stobs (devasting when concealed by leaves), exposed roots, more rocks, moving water, thorny vines and small tree branches growing over the path, race requirement for runners to carry their own sources of hydration, even more rocks, no mile markers or clocks, no bands, no fans, no frills.  And that was just the warm-up.  It was like Forrest and Bubba but with rocks....big rocks, small rocks, half buried rocks, sharp rocks, loose rocks, wet rocks, uneven rocks, rock paths, rock climbs, rock descents, rock and roll (Tom)...........that- that's about it.

For those of you interested in a way to amp-up your running without adding distance, the trail might be your calling.  Find a trail with uneven terrain and ~100 feet of ascending per mile on average and you will have a different experience than on the road.  If nothing else it's different because of the amount of mental energy given to watching the ground and focusing on the placement of each step....my feet are starting to hurt again just typing about it.  It's the only race I can recall dreading downhills....you simply can't run fast on a steep decline for risk of a misstep and loss of control.

Alas, MADKAP persists and in its way prevails.  This author posted a 1:38:07 to claim the male master's category, Counselor Tom contributed perhaps his final result in the M45-49 category with a 1:53:30 (including a ground-level view of the trail resulting in a minor epidermal breach), and Teacher Michael concluded the effort in 2:26:59.  All were fatigued and in need of showers much sooner than a return drive to central time afforded.

So the remaining race is the race to $25,000, and we're about 70% there.  A sincere thank you for all the support - financial and other - to date.  I'll be back in touch soon with more posts related to this pursuit as well as the long-awaited profile of my son, Ryan. 

{start/finish in background - wearing MADKAP shirts and pre-race smiles of unknowing optimism}
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Sunday, May 12, 2013

Iron Mom 1/2 Marathon - 5/11/2013

It was another lovely day for our second straight weekend on the banks of the Ohio River for the 3rd annual Mother's Day Eve Iron Mom Half Marathon.  An early 6:30AM start, mid-50s temps, and a cloudy morning made for an excellent distance running venue....as excellent as that activity gets, at least.  MADKAP shirts were briskly and bipedally transported through the streets of America's "Quilt City" - Paducah, Kentucky - but only after the singularly important pre-race question was posed to nearly 1000 individual and relay runners, "Are you ready to run like a mother?".

Despite forgoing pre-race mani/pedis and an absence of athletic accoutrement accessorizing (consonantal alliteration for you readers here only for the grammar), apparently we were.  This author managed a 1:28:08 which was good enough on this day to win the Male Master's (read: old people) division, and Counselor Tom dropped his handbag to demonstrate his customary final mile kick and consolidate a high age group finish in 1:43:44.

Off-road we go next weekend onto the trails of Raccoon Mountain in Chattanooga for the 4th of four straight half marathons.  Thanks for following our progress and for your support.  We're approximately 70% to our $25,000 fund-raising goal and would appreciate you sharing the word with as many people as possible so we can reach $25K by the end of June and turn that $25K into $50K with the help of WKU's matching funds.  Thanks again!

{post-race ~50 feet south of the finish line by the Ohio River in downtown Paducah - Illinois is in the background}
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Friday, May 10, 2013

KAP Profile - Ryan W (Student)

On the eve of the 3rd half marathon in Paducah (how did that get here so soon after the 2nd one?) let's take a minute to meet Ryan W, an energetic guy who is always ready to share the latest news and his perspective regarding WKU sports of all types.

Introduction by KAP:  Ryan is currently a WKU upperclassman and has been nominated as WKU's biggest fan.  Ryan is studying Exercise Science and is very involved with WKU sports.  His spirit and commitment to embracing every positive aspect of college makes him someone people seek to be around.  Ryan is also a strong advocate for the autism community.  He has given presentations at several schools about his experiences and has even made a video about ASD (autism spectrum disorders) and attending college.  Ryan is a true Hilltopper and we are proud to have him in our KAP family!

Q:  What year are you at WKU and what is your major?
Ryan W:  I am a senior at WKU and my major is Exercise Science.

Q:  Where are you from?
Ryan W:  Louisville, Kentucky

Q:  Why did you select WKU?
Ryan W:  I selected WKU because it's a decent-sized campus but with a huge university feel where I can be far from parents without leaving the state of Kentucky, and I can have that chance of showing that I can live on my own.

Q:  What are your biggest challenges with college?
Ryan W:  Juggling real life with your classes because, in a way, it's simulating what your life is going to be like after graduation - juggling your career and family - and it's preparing you.

Q:  What does KAP provide for you?
Ryan W:  KAP provides a lot of support for me here at WKU, not only with study help, but also around the social area, which can be my weakness at times.  KAP makes sure I'm keeping up with my schooling so I won't fall behind in my academic progress.

Q:  What do you want to do with your education after you graduate from WKU?
Ryan W:  With education completed here at WKU, I first want to vacation for enduring so many years of college work, but then pursue my career as an athletic trainer for a university team or professional sport.

Q:  What are your hobbies and favorite things to do?
Ryan W:  I currently play lacrosse for the sports club here at Western and have for the last three years.  I'm also interested in volleyball.

Q:  What do you want potential supporters of KAP to know?
Ryan W:  KAP is an amazing place with great people here, even despite our attitudes at times.  Whenever someone asks me how I am becoming successful here at WKU, I immediately tell them that KAP helps me every day.


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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

MAKDAP Fund-Raising Update - 5th Hurdle Cleared - Thank You!

Greetings good people.  A quick post - which is in no way a reflection of the enthusiasm associated with the topic - to let you know that we have eclipsed the $15,000 mark.  Thank you very much!  So, you know the drill by now....that gets us to the point of another $500 check of mine hitting tomorrow's mail.  We are really getting into range of meeting our $25K goal and I thank you for every dollar contributed.  We will continue the active effort to raise awareness and funds until we turn each one of those dollars into two courtesy of WKU's matching funds.

Short week of rest before we're breaking down our bodies once again on Saturday 5/11 while cloaked in MADKAP shirts moving as rapidly as possible through another 13.1 mile course offered by the roads of Paducah, KY.  Send positive energy our way and scholarship funds MADKAP's way...and maybe an ibuprofen or three.  Keep an eye out for another KAP profile on a student named Ryan - and not my Ryan....yet - before we get to Paducah.  Thank you again!
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Monday, May 6, 2013

KAP Profile - Sarah (Leadership)

Greetings MADKAP loyalists.  Time again to introduce yet another face of KAP.  And it's an important one in terms of KAP's college program....it's the KAP College Program Manager, Sarah.  Sarah is the manager, coach, trainer, and referee of activities that include a couple of soccer games worth of KAP college students.  Daily study tables, reviews of academic progress, dinners and gatherings, class schedules, mentor support, communicating with parents....she does everything but vacuum.  Which, of course, is a bit of an exaggeration.  She does that too if needed.  But she does it all with a smile that reflects her genuine joy in working with the students.  And she's unquestionably mportant to KAP's college students.  Students like my son.  Let's put the spotlight on Sarah for a moment.

Q:  Will you share some of your background with us?  What led to your involvement with KAP and how long have you been part of the organization?
Sarah:  I grew up in Owensboro, Kentucky and graduated from Apollo High School.  During high school, I was a peer tutor and this is where I found my passion for working with special needs students.  I went on to attend WKU for both my Bachelor's and my Master's degrees.  During my college career, I worked at the Kelly Autism Program and Migrant Head Start.

I got connected with KAP during my junior year of college.  I was in a behavior management class and worked with a young man who had autism.  He was part of KAP so I began volunteering there.  Then, after my class, I had the opportunity to continue working with this young man and to become part of the KAP family.

Currently I am the Program Manager for KAP's college program.  I have been in this position for the past several years.  I love the college students and consider it an honor that we get to do life together!

Q:  What are the most common challenges for KAP college students and how does KAP help address them?
Sarah:  Each of the participants of KAP are individuals and with this brings specific challenges and strengths for each person.  I think KAP addresses these needs on many levels.  We look at the whole person and the participants learn to problem solve issues in their lives.  We also provide a place for them to be and belong.  I have to credit our staff with the welcoming environment they have created for our participants.  KAP staff is invested in the participants and this shows on a daily basis.

Q:  What aspects of KAP's plans for the next few years energize you the most?
Sarah:  I am seeing our college program continue to grow as we try to address the needs of this population.  We were able to expand our program and hire another full-time staff member to help me run the Circle of Support.  It excites me to continue to work with such deserving people from across the United States!

Q:  What do you like to do when you're not working and being involved with KAP, and what are some of your favorite things?
Sarah:  When I am not involved with KAP, I love to travel with my husband and friends.  I also enjoy kayaking and spending time outdoors.

Q:  What does additional financial support and scholarship funding enable for KAP?
Sarah:  Additional financial support will allow KAP to serve more individuals with autism at the college level.  It will also provide support for those who are already a part of the KAP family.  This support can help to ensure that our participants receive the support that they need.




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Sunday, May 5, 2013

Cinco de 'hio - Flying Pig 1/2 Marathon - 5/5/2013

Ohio played host to MADKAP racing this morning for the 15th annual Flying Pig Marathon & Half Marathon in The Queen City, Cincinnati.  Kentucky got in on the action as well with a majority of the first 5K being run on two bridges over the Ohio River and in Kentucky.  A 6:30AM EDT start allowed us to find the "Finish Swine" (I didn't make that up) before the rain started, and an overcast morning in the mid-50s provided forgiving conditions throughout.  Less forgiving was the mid-course multi-mile trek to the Cincinnati Observatory.  Some of you more perceptive readers might be thinking, "Hmm, observatory...that sounds like it could possibly be uphill."  Perspicacious indeed.  Turns out the Cincinnati Observatory is "located atop the rolling hills of Mount Lookout" (I didn't make that up either).  But, in equitable fashion, the final 5K of the course included a descent of said rolling hills of Mount Lookout.

1:29:30 today for this author, and Counselor Tom brought home a 1:45:23, finding MADKAP's Flying Pig finishers narrowly and regrettably out-kicked at the line by the Scheid brothers from New Jersey who placed 1st and 4th overall.  And by out-kicked, we mean they were probably on a plane home to the Garden State by the time we finished.

Sometimes you feel like you get the relative better of a course; sometimes it gets the better of you.  Today, the latter.  There must be something to this rest and recovery between events thing that the so-called experts recommend.  Today was more challenging physically than the first week, and surely the limited time between events was a factor...which could make the six days till the Paducah 1/2 seem even shorter.  But The Quilt City awaits, and MADKAP will be on the roads yet again Saturday.

Thanks for your considerable support.  Please check-in often this week for a couple of new KAP profiles and a fund-raising update.  Thx again!
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Friday, May 3, 2013

MADKAP Fund-Raising Update - $12,547 thru April!

Greetings MADKAPPERS, blogospherians, and Twitterversers...and a sincere thank you for the incredibly generous support to date.  I'm very pleased to tell you that we are over halfway to our $25K goal through the end of April.  THANK YOU!  This means that we have cleared the 4th hurdle and, as promised, I have placed another $500 check in the mail to accompany the most recent $2500 raised.  I'm aware of some very generous donations to kick-off our May efforts and am eager to share the next update with you as soon as it's available.

We're off to Cincinnati this weekend to literally put MADKAP back on the road to continue the active effort to raise awareness and scholarship funds.  Stay tuned for a race update later this weekend as well as the next KAP profile on Sarah, KAP College Program Manager.  Thank you again!
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Monday, April 29, 2013

Thank You! - 3rd Fund-Raising Hurdle Cleared

Greetings MADKAPPERS, and a big thank you....together we have cleared the 3rd hurdle.  And that means that we have collectively exceeded the $9000 mark.  Five figures is in sight just up the road.  I sincerely thank you for all of your generosity and significant support.  As mentioned for previous hurdles, the check is in the mail....my $500 to go with the most recent $2500 contributed.  And, unlike Fletch or Ace Ventura's rent, this check really is in the mail.

Please continue to share the word - social media, eMail, conversation if people have those any more, a different color Sharpie writing on your forehead - with others who can support the MADKAP initiative and might also benefit from knowing about Kelly Autism Program.  Donors still don't have to create a new account to contribute...if someone already has a PayPal account, it's that easy (see "Donate Now" link).  

The training continues...and it simply can't get any rainier than last weekend's event.  Back to you soon with another KAP profile!
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Sunday, April 28, 2013

MADKAP Profile - Amanda (Mentor)

Let's spend a little time getting to know Amanda, someone who has served as a mentor to KAP students and given a lot of time to the program.  Her enthusiasm and energy for the program speak for themselves, and so to does her understanding of and advocacy for students on the autism spectrum.  As another mentor in the program offered, Amanda "...is awesome...she's one of the best".

Q:  What would you like to share with us about you?
Amanda:  I was born in Fort Worth, Texas, though I only lived there a year.  Thanks to my Dad's job in the Navy, my family was blessed with the opportunity to live in 18 states.  I have also been to 30 countries and lived in eight of them.

By the time I was three I began horseback riding and skiing, competing in hunter-jumper and cross country (respectively).  At six my brother and I were on the local swim team and I was playing piano.  I was always terrible at school and at learning in a classroom setting.  My family is so supportive - they did whatever it took to get the hands-on education that allowed me to thrive...museums, libraries, tutors, inventing new games, etc..  Because of their love I was ultimately granted the opportunity to graduate high school early with honors.

Q:  How did you first learn about KAP and what led to your involvement with KAP (and in what ways)?
Amanda:  I first learned about KAP after falling in love with a five year-old little boy in Ireland who, like myself, loves to swim, be outside, build forts in the living room before a movie night, and play with his dog.  He also happens to be autistic.

I knew from the moment I left him that my life had been changed and I would have to do whatever it took to get involved with the world of autism in America.  After a pow-wow with a sorority sister she told me about "some program for autistic kids" at WKU!  I eMailed the address I found on the KAP web site for Dr. Boman.  I asked her if I could volunteer through them.  She told me that we could schedule an interview.  Not having any real experience working with autism, I agreed while thinking "this is gonna be painfully tragic".  An hour later I was asked to come back the next day to fill-out paperwork.  When I returned I was not only given my class assignment for Prime-Time (the after-school program for kiddos 7-18) but also my first two mentees!

Presently I am helping to plan the Walk/Run for Autism including a silent auction and pasta dinner.

Q:  In what ways have you seen WKU and the Bowling Green community support KAP?
Amanda:  WKU and the Bowling Green community are great supporters of KAP.  The local baseball team (the Bowling Green Hot Rods, Class A affiliate of the Tampa Bay Rays) helps host a run/walk each year.  The WKU football, baseball, basketball, volleyball, and girls soccer teams each host a KAP day during the spring and are constantly visiting to hang out with our kids.

Q:  What are some the biggest challenges being a KAP mentor?  And what are some of the biggest rewards?
Amanda:  One of the biggest challenges being a KAP mentor is cleaning and organizing rooms on move-out weeks.  The biggest rewards are the same as all other good friendships:  discovery, self-growth, and great memories.  Mentoring isn't about guiding someone or helping someone for a school year.  That's how it starts out, sure, but if you're willing to let it, the person you're mentoring becomes a true friend.  As a paid mentor, you're supported to meet with your person at least once a week to grab food and catch-up.  You're also supposed to help them keep their room at a manageable level of cleanliness and organization.  It becomes much more than that...it's a friendship.  You begin to look forward to that dreaded math class just for the lunch after with the friend you met at KAP.  You're excited to get together on Tuesdays to watch PLL and Dance Moms.  Thursday nights at the book store aren't just a time to find a good read but also to catch-up with a sweet friend.  Even though the next year you may be asked to mentor someone different, you still go to lunch with the ones from previous years because you want to, not because you are asked to.  For some of us we often forget to turn-in our time-sheets for lunch-dates and outings because it becomes more than work.  It is only work if you would rather be doing something else.  I wouldn't.

Q:  What do you want to do with your WKU education and how will your experience as part of KAP support that?
Amanda:  With my WKU education, I hope to get my masters degree in Social Work and become a Play Therapist or Positive Psychologist.  My experience at KAP has allowed for a more well-rounded education and hands-on experience.

Q:  What are some of your favorite things?
Amanda:
Music - Frank Sinatra, Bing, Fred, Judy, Jack Johnson, Carrie Underwood
Places - any place I can make a new friend
Movies - Notting Hill, Patriot Games, Mr. Blandings Builds His Dream House, Holiday Inn
Foods - coffee, fruits and veggies (I don't like sweets other than ice cream)
Sports - football (New England Patriots, Chicago Bears, Houston Texans, WKU) and baseball (BG Hot Rods, Chicago Cubs)
Books - I couldn't choose...I love a good book!

Q:  What are you working to learn or improve or accomplish...in any facet of your life?
Amanda:  In my life I am working to be more patient towards annoying people.  I hope to one day have my own practice in Play Therapy and American Sign Language, be a wife and mother, open a coffee house (Java Da Hut), and to be a professional philanthropist.  I hope to do at least one thing every day that scares me, and write a book or two.  But above all else I hope to be happy and do good.


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Saturday, April 27, 2013

Country Music 1/2 Marathon - Sat 4/27/2013

When describing a rainy day, you've probably heard someone say - or even yourself said - "it rained the entire time" and perhaps the rain stopped occasionally or was actually intermittent.  Alas, not today.  It rained.  The.  Entire.  Time.  Nonetheless, MADKAP 2013 is out of the gate and on the open road at official running events in fine style.  It might have rained the whole way - and it did - but it was still a good time...MADKAP shirts were on display and several runners on the course even asked "hey, what is that?" as we made our way through the rain-soaked streets of "The Music City".  This author posted a 1:29:29 and fellow MADKAP runner Counselor Tom submitted a 1:44:03.  Next stop, Cincinnati ("The Queen City") on Sunday 5/5 for The Flying Pig Half Marathon.

Many thanks to MADKAP Webmaster Pyron (far left of pic, as viewed) for his significant contribution to MADKAP's online presence and this on-course photo (~5.5 mile mark) taken on Belmont Boulevard this morning.  Did I mention that it rained?  Back to you tomorrow to continue the MADKAP profiles.

And remember, it's still Autism Awareness Month...your support of this initiative to create scholarship funding for and share the word (Facebook, eMail, town crier, etc.) about KAP is truly appreciated.


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Sunday, April 21, 2013

MADKAP Racing Team Ready To Roll

Roll might be too aggressive of an action verb for a group of dudes collectively over 180 years old.  Okay, it definitely is.  But it's time.  We've made it through long runs, tempo runs, intervals, and fast-finish runs; rainy/snowy/windy runs, dark (early) runs, cold runs, and, increasingly, some really great days of weather too; urban runs, track runs, a trail run (drop & roll, Governor), even Tabata runs (Google Dr. Izumi Tabata or Wikipedia "High-Intensity Interval Training" for more info).

The last double digit training run was completed yesterday and in a few days we toe the line - alright, we'll be many yards back of the elites who are actually toeing the line - at MADKAP's first half marathon.  The schedule is:

4/27 - The Music City - Country Music 1/2M (Nashville)
5/5 - The Queen City - Flying Pig 1/2M (Cincinnati)
5/11 - The Quilt City - Iron Mom ("I Ran Like A Mother") 1/2M (Paducah)
5/18 - The Scenic City - Rock/Creek Trail 1/2M (Chattanooga)

If you're interested to know more about the general training schedule/pattern we employed, please add a comment below or send me an eMail....if there's enough interest, I'll post an article about it.

Almost 30 full marathons have been collectively completed by this blue-shoed crew not to mention - okay, I'm mentioning it - many more half marathons (combined official events and training runs of 13+ miles), but these four half marathons will be the first efforts on behalf of KAP.

Thank you for all the support to date....there were, yet again, some remarkably generous contributions to the MADKAP scholarship fund-raising effort this past week.  (I will post a $ update within the next couple of days, and more KAP profiles will follow.)  Thank you!

Pictured below (left to right as viewed):  David (Governor), Jeff (The Organizer), Michael (Teach, aka Wave), & Tom (Counselor)


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Saturday, April 20, 2013

KAP Profile - The Kellys (Leadership)

It's time to get in the WABAC machine and return to the beginning.  To know more about Kelly Autism Program means it's time to get to know The Kellys.  Having spent some time with John and Linda, I'm almost certain that they would prefer we focus on others and that they would tell you that the start and growth of this program was not only something that they wanted to do and felt compelled to do, it was something that they simply couldn't not do.  And when we stop to consider the amount of time, money, effort, compassion, and love that they've put into the program that bears their name, well, we simply couldn't not put the spotlight on them for a moment, right?

Therefore, it is with great delight that I get to share with you a bit about The Kellys, a couple that has done more for and given more to the program than I can adequately present and than most people will ever know....and they continue to do so.  They are an extremely active, available, and caring force behind KAP of unwavering commitment and grand vision.

Q:  Will you share some things about you with us?
John:  I was born in Toronto, Ontario...attended The University of Toronto...thought I would be a teacher but got into business...joined DESA Industries of Canada in 1972...transferred to the head office in Bowling Green, Kentucky in 1983 as VP of Sales/Marketing...ultimately retired in 2000 as COO.  In 2003, my partner from DESA and I joined Pan Oston, Ltd., a store fixture company majority owned by Houchens Industries, in a turn-around effort...after leading the company back to stability and profitability I retired again in 2011.

Linda grew up in Wisconsin and we met through business...her company sold construction equipment to DESA Canada for the Canadian market.  We married in 1981.  We have two children, Victoria (age 26) and Michael (age 22).

Currently, I am on the CEC Board of Directors, member of the College of Education and Behavioral Sciences Board of Advisors, member of the Board of Advisors for the College of Health and Human Services, member of the WKU President's Board of Advisors, and member of the recently completed WKU Capital Campaign....and former board member of Kids on the Block and New Beginnings Therapeutic Riding.

Q:  What led to your involvement in starting and growing KAP?  And in what ways has WKU and the Bowling Green community supported KAP and how important has that been for the success of the program?
John:  We watched Victoria attending middle and high school and not having teachers with comprehensive training in autism.  We were concerned that we were not maximizing her capabilities - and worried about others in the same condition who have the capability to do more and were being contained and restrained.  We worked with Dr. Frank Kersting - WKU Speech faculty and who also provided private services to our family - and Mary Lloyd Moore, Sam Evans, and others at WKU to provide a working "umbrella" to create the program and include groups and individuals from school systems and the community in the program.  We have had excellent cooperation and participation from the community.

Q:  Are there plans to extend this program beyond WKU?
John:  We have already expanded KAP into Owensboro, at Wendell Foster (MADKAP note: a campus for developmental disabilities formed in 1947), providing many of the services that we provide in Bowling Green and we believe that there is an opportunity to take our "applied" program to other communities around the country.

Q:  What are the main ways that parents/guardians of autistic children become aware of KAP?
John:  Most are hearing of us through word of mouth, referrals, and the web site.  Some are getting involved - particularly the college program - through seminars and other media/presentations by KAP staff.

Q:  What are the biggest challenges to continue growing/enhancing the program and fulfilling the mission?
John:  The biggest challenge is to support the high level of services that we provide  while, at the same time, enabling productive growth of the programs.  We need resources to train staff while improving and expanding facilities in order to provide our individuals and families with the best in services and practices.

Q:  What things would you most like supporters of KAP to know about the program that might not be well-publicized?
John:  That we have created a support infrastructure that will be with KAP members throughout their entire lives.  KAP does not stop at 16, or 21, or after graduating from college, or when getting a job, or living on their own...support, at various levels, is likely to be needed for their entire lives.

Q:  What do you like to do when you're not working and being involved with KAP and what are some of your favorite things?
John:  I try to work my personal life in thirds....try to look at my life as made up of Family, Philanthropy, and Business interests.  Vacations with the family are one of my favorite things.  And I am a poor golfer but love the "bar cart".

Q:  What does additional financial support and scholarship funding enable for KAP?
John:  Additional funding is required for KAP to maintain its current high level of performance and support, and to provide for growth and expansion of our programs.  With the incidence of autism now almost 1 in 50 children, we have a national epidemic that is not getting the financial support and recognition that is necessary.  We need more effectively-trained teachers, speech therapists, and counselors...and to make these services more available to communities around the country.


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Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Thank You! - Another Fund-Raising Hurdle Cleared

Very pleased to report that the 2nd hurdle has been cleared and, therefore, I'm putting another $500 check in the mail for the MADKAP initiative.  I truly can't thank you all enough for the support.  Including the $500 mentioned we are now over the $6000 mark, and I'm aware of several very generous donations initiated during the last few days that have yet to officially post, so I suspect we are rapidly approaching the next hurdle as well.  Thank you!  Please share the word - via Facebook, Google+, MySpace (does that still exist?), LinkedIN, Twitter, Snapchat, Sharpie message on your forehead, any social media that works for you - with others who can support the MADKAP initiative and might also benefit from knowing about Kelly Autism Program.  And donors don't even have to create a new account to contribute...if someone already has a PayPal account, it's that easy (see "Donate Now" link).  Thank you again...it means a lot to everyone involved with the program (and even to some future KAP students who have yet to join the program).
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Sunday, April 14, 2013

KAP Profile - Kathryn (Student)

Greetings again MADKAP supporters, and welcome to our second student profile...this one featuring Kathryn.  Kathryn stands out in the KAP college program for a number of reasons, including her west coast affiliation and her gender...most estimates place the male-female ratio for autism at 4:1.

A quick summary from the program:  "Kathryn has a great personality and is blossoming on WKU's campus.  She is also an advocate for autism and will even be presenting at the national autism conference next fall!  We are excited to watch Kathryn grow and look forward to her bright future."

Let's hear more from Kathryn in her words....(and I don't know about you, but as far as cookies go, date meringue sounds delightful to me)

Q:  What year are you at WKU and what is your major?
Kathryn:  This is my first year at WKU, but I am a sophomore.  My major is Sports Management with a minor in Communication Studies.

Q:  Where are you from?
Kathryn:  I am from Southern California, halfway between Los Angeles and San Diego...a very long way from home!

Q:  Why did you select WKU?
Kathryn:  I chose to attend WKU because of the Kelly Autism Program.  There are only a handful of colleges and universities in the United States with autism programs, and none are on the west coast, so coming to Kentucky was an obvious choice.

Q:  What are your biggest challenges with college?
Kathryn:  I think the biggest challenge is that it's extremely difficult for most people to identify that I have a disability.  If I don't reach out to my professors and tell them that I am mildly autistic, then this is misinterpreted as "Kathryn doesn't live up to her potential".

Q:  What does KAP provide for you?
Kathryn:  KAP has provided the extra support that I have always needed in school.  Every day when I go to KAP, there's always someone there to help me study or to decipher a concept I didn't understand from a lecture.  KAP has provided me with opportunities to speak out on self-advocacy, and that's a blessing because I have a lot to say since I was only diagnosed at eighteen (18).  I've met many friends from KAP too, so it's comforting to have this built-in community and pass familiar faces on campus.

Q:  What do you want to do with your education after you graduate from WKU?
Kathryn:  I took a semester off at one point, and that made me realize how much I love school and to learn.  I wouldn't be surprised if I went on to pursue another degree after WKU.  I want to work towards a career in Public Relations, so whatever it takes for me to accomplish that goal!

Q:  What are your hobbies and favorite things to do?
Kathryn:  I love to bake and experiment with old family recipes; date meringue cookies are the latest success!  When I'm home on the west coast, I take advantage of the beautiful weather and load my road bike and head to the Hollywood Hills.  I also keep up on sports, so going to hockey, baseball, and basketball games is one of my favorite things to do.

Q:  What do you want potential supporters of KAP to know?
Kathryn:  I'm new to WKU and the Kelly Autism Program this semester, but I've already experienced how helpful it is to have this network of people who strive to be there for each student.  I feel more confident when I study on my own now, because KAP has provide great techniques in order for me to be successful.  I want potential supporters to know that being in the Kelly Autism Program still allows me to have the typical college experience but provides opportunities I wouldn't have otherwise.



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April = Autism Awareness Month

Quick note just to remind everyone that it is Autism Awareness Month.

Your support of the MADKAP initiative to generate scholarship funds for KAP has been fantastic.  Incredibly generous gifts have been given - some so generous and unexpected from some of you that it's been both stunningly humbling and wholly energizing.  Thank you isn't sufficient, but thank you.  Let's keep it going and also share the word with others....we can undoubtedly hit the $25K mark and see to it that WKU matches our efforts.

Also, in terms of literally taking the KAP name to the streets, we are now in the final fortnight of training for the first 1/2 marathon (Country Music in Nashville - 4/27).  The long weekend runs have been completed, the hard tempo work contributed, and a couple of pesky minor injuries linger.  It's time for some race miles cloaked in the KAP colors.

A few quick points re: autism given the aforementioned month:

--autism now affects one (1) out of 88 children, a figure that increases in concentration upon seemingly every update

--there are no medical tests for autism; diagnosis is solely behavioral.  This accounts for the extreme age range of initial diagnoses

--autism affects what most of us know to be the normal development of the brain and can affect not only behavior but communication skills, pragmatic language use, and social interactions

--autism is a spectrum disorder; there is a wide range of difference in how it manifests and I'll speak to this more in a future article


Thank you again everyone.  We are collectively making a difference.
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Sunday, April 7, 2013

KAP Profile - Dr. Boman (Leadership)

Meet Dr. Marty Boman, Director of Kelly Autism Program (KAP).  All of it.  Primary, secondary, and higher education levels.  It's difficult to adequately describe Dr. Boman's role and contribution.  She's a bright mind, a seemingly tireless leader, a caregiver to and advocate for KAP students whom she treats more like extended family than participants, and a warm person who sets expectations for growth and accountability in a positive manner.  I don't know of a better summary or compliment to offer than to tell you that, after we first visited WKU and KAP two years ago and talked with Dr. Boman, I spent a the full hour driving home simply wondering "what are we going to do if we don't get to participate in this incredible program?"

Dr. Boman could fill most of her schedule with visits to other universities that want to know what KAP is doing and how to serve their own student communities that have similar needs.  In fact, Dr. Boman is presently visiting Taiwan on behalf of WKU and KAP.  She is both part of something remarkable and a significant part of why it's remarkable.

Enough from me...let's hear from one of the engines that makes KAP run.

Q:  Will you share your background with us?
Dr. Boman:  I am from Saint Cloud, Minnesota where I graduated with a Biology degree.  When I returned to teaching after my three children were born, I had a number of students with disabilities in my classes.  I decided to pursue my Master's degree in Special Education as well as my Doctorate.  I taught for over 14 years in the public school systems before I came to WKU.

Q:  What led to your involvement in starting and/or leading KAP and how long have you been part of the organization?
Dr. Boman:  When my three children graduated from college, my husband decided to take early retirement.  Like my kids stated, Mom and Dad left us to go off to college!  I had job offers at a number of universities, but chose WKU when I met John and Linda Kelly.  Their vision really excited me regarding the possibilities.  I came to WKU in 2004 and became involved with the program immediately.

Q:  Are there plans to extend the program beyond WKU?
Dr. Boman:  We are always working with other universities due to the fact that there is such a need.  Parents find it difficult to send their children across the county, especially when they have a diagnosis; therefore, we need to have programs at all universities.

Q:  Is KAP affiliated with any regional/national organizations, or are there plans to do so?
Dr. Boman:  At the current time, there are no affiliations for programming, but we would like to forward our model nationally.

Q:  What are the eligibility requirements for KAP?  Otherwise stated, what information/documentation must be supplied to KAP to be eligible for the program?
Dr. Boman:  Participants need to meet the requirement for WKU and have a diagnosis of ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder).  Then we go through an interview to evaluate the participants.

Q:  How are students chosen to participate in KAP and how many, on average, are accepted into the program each year?
Dr. Boman: We assess their desire to be at college (parents and participants).  Usually, we accept fewer than ten new students, but this year we will be adding another new manager to support the program so we'll raise our numbers to 50 [KAP college student total].

Q:  What are the main ways that parents/guardians of autistic children become aware of KAP?
Dr. Boman:  Families search on-line, hear presentations at conferences, and word of mouth.  Schools also assist their students as they are going through transition planning.

Q:  In the history of the program, how many KAP students have received WKU degrees and how many are on track to receive degrees either Spring '13 or Winter '13?  What are some of the things KAP graduates have done next?
Dr. Boman:  The KAP Circle of Support Program began in 2006 with two students.  We have had four graduates at this time, with another three anticipated this Spring, 2013.  One young man is writing a book and going through the Peace Corps process, another is working in ministry, and another continued in his position that he had while he attended college.  Depending on what one considers success, we have other students who did not graduate, but are speakers about autism, working in state/national parks, continuing with their education closer to home, working in the computer field, etc..

Q:  What are the biggest challenges to continue growing/enhancing the program and fulfilling the mission?  And what will the next few years look like for KAP?
Dr. Boman:  The biggest challenge is meeting the emotional needs of these individuals.  Many of them have been bullied through the years, struggling with relationships and having friends, and working with the hidden curriculum in all aspects of life.  There never is a dull moment, and counseling is a critical component of our program.

Q:  What are the things of which you'd like people to be aware that might not be widely known about KAP?
Dr. Boman:  KAP works with the whole person and tries to individualize their needs as much as possible.  At the same time, we really encourage the social aspects so that these individuals can become Productive, Independent, and Employable individuals in their communities.  Secondly, we have the greatest staff with WKU!  Each and every one of them truly wants to work with these individuals, and we could not have this program without their support!

Q:  What do you like to do when you're not working and being involved with KAP?
Dr. Boman:  I love to spend time with my husband and family.  They provide me with the strength and energy as there are many aspects of this job that others do not realize - last night calls, trips to the hospital, working with professors, working with parents, etc..  The list is never-ending.  I love to return home to Minnesota and the lake.  We love to exercise in a variety of venues - swimming, canoeing, kayaking, skiing, mountain climbing, hiking, etc..

Q:  What are some of your favorite things...music, places, movies, foods, pets, etc.?
Dr. Boman:  I love the outdoors as previously stated, but I enjoy traveling and seeing new places.  We have always had at least one dog so I am excited about CanDoo (KAP's new therapy dog arriving Fall '13) coming to live with us.  I love music from the '70s and '80s as well as some classical.  I enjoy reading, but tend to focus on research now as I am embedded in this work.  I appreciate most food:  Chinese, Mexican, and various vegetables!  I do not eat many sweets, BUT the way to my heart is chocolate!

Q:  What does additional financial support and scholarship funding enable for KAP?
Dr. Boman:  This financial support helps the family.  Many students worry about the burden on their parents.  With this financial assistance, we can provide support for these families who would not be able to send their son/daughter to college.  It is great that WKU is now offering the matching donation so this is a great time to raise the money and to have the dollars stretch even further!




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Thursday, April 4, 2013

KAP Profile - Hendrix (Mentor)

Time to introduce you to Hendrix, a young man who works part-time with KAP as a mentor and full-time as someone who gives his time, energy, and care to the program.  And full disclosure, I've known Hendrix and his family (Nashville-based) for many years, and you won't meet many young men who are more well-rounded and selfless than Hendrix.  He has excelled at most things and on most levels for his two plus decades and he's done it by being a giving, hard-working, affable person.  I'll let Hendrix tell you more about himself later.  One interesting side note....Hendrix is the primary punter for WKU's football team and was a tri-captain last season which included WKU's first ever bowl appearance.  Next season will be his last and should be an interesting one as coach Bobby Petrino's first at the helm and also WKU's last season in the Sun Belt (a move to Conference USA mid-2014 was announced this week).

So, KAP mentors...who are they and what do they do?  Good question; let's address it.  All KAP college students are assigned a mentor, and a mentor typically works with 2-3 students.  From my perspective, a KAP mentor's work is on two main fronts:  academic, and social/campus community.  Academically, a mentor helps ensure that students are accountable (attending classes, attending weekday study tables at KAP) and seeking/receiving the resources needed to be successful learning, being organized, and completing work in timely fashion.  Socially, they also work with students to ensure they are an active part of the community - both within KAP and on campus - and getting involved in opportunities that interest and benefit them.  The mentors also have a personal, vested interest in learning and being effective in their roles given that many of them are pursuing educations in associated fields.  As a parent, I was enthused to learn that all mentors are paid for their efforts and held to performance standards.

Hendrix, a busy college student, was kind enough to share some thoughts about being a KAP mentor.  Let's hear from him.

Q:  What would you like to initially share about you?
Hendrix:  I am 21, born in Nashville, lived there my whole life, and went to Hillsboro High School where I played football, soccer, lacrosse, and swimming.  My major is Special Education and I work with KAP on many of their activities, like Quiz Bowl.  I have two sisters and a brother.  I work for KAP, setup party equipment (bouncy castles, etc.) for a company in Bowling Green, and drive cars at the Kirby Auto Auction.  I play football, and I don't have hobbies really but do stay busy with class work and football.

Q:  How did you first learn about KAP and what led to your involvement?  In what ways are you involved with KAP?
Hendrix:  I first learned about KAP through a girl in one of my freshman classes whose Mom was the receptionist at the time.  She found out that I enjoyed working with students with different challenges and recommended me for a job.  I work at KAP during its summer camp and do some work as a mentor during the school year.

Q:  In general, what are the commonalities of KAP mentors?
Hendrix:  There are all sorts of students who become mentors.  What mentors share in common is a friendly demeanor and a willingness to help students with whatever problems they have.  The main thing is that they are friends with their mentees instead of being authority figures.

Q:  How has KAP changed/grown since you first became involved with the organization?
Hendrix:  I feel like KAP is continually growing in both size and popularity.  They are constantly finding new ways to get students involved and it's always a positive place for students with disabilities to come for help or to just hang out.

Q:  What type of impact have you seen mentoring have for students in the program?
Hendrix:  Mentoring is something that I think can hugely affect students in their college lives.  Mentors are there to help with academic, social, emotional, and personal problems and help the students get involved with things around campus.  Mentors provide a major stepping stone for the participants to find friends around school and succeed in social settings.

Q:  In what ways have you see WKU and the Bowling Green community support KAP?
Hendrix:  WKU has always been great with KAP by offering its time and space for our activities as well as funding and getting the word out about what we do.  Bowling Green itself is always offering opportunities for the participants to get involved outside of school and the community is always willing to support us in fund-raisers and activities.

Q:  Tell us about some of your mentoring experiences.  With whom have you worked and what interesting stories come to mind?
Hendrix:  Some of the men I've been around include Winston, Alex, and Ryan.  The successes all revolve around watching them become more social around school.  Whether this is through fraternity involvement, being recognized as WKU's biggest student fan, or producing their own rap music, the mentees I have worked with all have made incredible gains in their social skills.  They all have uniqueness unlike any other and that's what I love about being around them.  Each and every one of the men I have gotten to know have definitely become one of my friends if nothing else.

Q:  What are some of the biggest challenges being a KAP mentor?  What are the biggest rewards?
Hendrix:  The biggest challenge to being a mentor would probably be just making sure that your mentee is doing alright and is getting whatever work done that they need to do.  Like any college student, there are times when you have to get on them for procrastinating but this is nothing out of the ordinary.  Balancing your time between your mentees and yourself is sometimes challenging when you have a busy schedule as well.  The rewards are too many to name but mainly seeing them achieve their goals and thrive in the university setting are the biggest ones.

Q:  What do you want to do with your WKU education and how will your experience as part of KAP support that?
Hendrix:  I will be looking to teach in one form or another, so whether I look for recommendations from KAP to work in a school, a life skills program, at KAP itself, or another program like it, I think the experience I have gained while being in college will be invaluable.

Q:  What things would you most like people to know about KAP that might not be well-publicized?
Hendrix:  I think many people would look at KAP from the outside and recognize that they are probably doing positive things to help out people with autism but I can't even begin to explain how far above other programs they are.  The work they do at KAP is recognized as some of the best in the nation, but unless you are in a social circle that talks about those things you wouldn't know.  They really are the best program out there in my opinion.

Q:  What are some of your favorite things?
Hendrix:  Football, watching all sports, good barbeque, my pet cat (Cougar), classic rock music, action movies, grilling and cooking in general, spending time with my teammates outside of football, and my teachers.

Q:  What are you working to learn or improve or accomplish...in any facet of your life?
Hendrix:  I want to continue to learn to work with all types of people and make them feel comfortable around me.  I also am serious about becoming the best football player I can be for my last year here as well as getting the grades I need to graduate.


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Monday, April 1, 2013

Thank You! - First Fund-Raising Hurdle Cleared

Since we're taking the KAP name to the streets for organized races, we'll stick with the running theme....the first hurdle - $2500 - has been cleared!  If we can collectively clear ~seven more hurdles (eight total), WKU will match us dollar for dollar to create $50,000 of sustainable scholarships for KAP.  As promised, I am contributing $500 for every $2500 raised, so this is the most pleased I've been in quite a while to write a check.  And with that, we're now over $3000.  Thanks to everyone who has contributed to date....there have been some incredibly generous donations, they all matter, and I am truly humbled and energized by the support being shown to this wonderful community of people.  25 days until our first half marathon on the streets of Nashville in our new MADKAP race shirts...let's keep the momentum.  Thank you again!  --Jeff
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Saturday, March 30, 2013

KAP Profile - Curtis (Student)

Curtis is a role model.  He just doesn't know it.  And he doesn't try to be.  He just is.  Curtis is courageous in a way that doesn't present a front of aplomb but by choosing to do and be more outside of his comfort zone, which takes courage.

Curtis is an upperclassman at WKU and a member of KAP.  Last November, Curtis gave a speech at KAP's annual Alliance Awards.  Speeches can be daunting.  After all, public speaking is America's #1 collective personal fear.  Death lags several spots.  And it was Curtis's first.  He was too nervous even to attend the year prior.  But Curtis committed to the effort, crafted his presentation, donned his sportcoat, and delivered a thoughtful, personal message to a room of attendees including the President of WKU.  The applause was well-earned.  And I think he would agree that this was unlikely to have occurred without the support of KAP.

Curtis is a role model.

Curtis will graduate at the end of the year.  He's a carbon-based Civil War encyclopedia and he hopes to work in the field of historical research and archiving.  Perhaps even on campus at WKU.

This is the first of many profiles of the people who are KAP and make KAP what it is.  As we will do with others, let's conclude by hearing more from Curtis.

Q:  What year are you at WKU and what is your major?
Curtis:  I am currently a senior at WKU with a major in history.

Q:  Where are you from?
Curtis:  Louisville, Kentucky

Q:  Why did you select WKU?
Curtis:  It has a friendly atmosphere unlike any other college that I have seen.  I joined it primarily because of the Kelly Autism Program.

Q:  What are your biggest challenges with college?
Curtis:  My biggest challenge was adjusting emotionally to where I was in my life.  I learned over the course of my college years to be at peace with myself.  Although I have struggled with my anxiety I have gotten better each year.

Q:  What does KAP provide for you?
Curtis:  For me KAP was my family.  A lot of students who are admitted to the Kelly Autism Program don't always think of it that way but for me KAP was my family, my emotional support, everything that I enjoyed in college was the result of the Kelly Autism Program.

Q:  What do you want to do with your education after you graduate from WKU?
Curtis:  I plan to work in a library or museum.  Anything that deals with history would be good for me.

Q:  What are your hobbies and favorite things to do?
Curtis:  I love swimming and reading.  I also love watching The Lord Of The Rings trilogy.

Q:  What do you want potential supporters of KAP to know?
Curtis:  I want them to know that KAP is more than an educational outlet.  It's also a family.  I emphasize that word a lot when it comes to the Kelly Autism Program.  They have provided me the emotional and intellectual support that I needed through college.  I also want potential supporters of KAP to know that this is a journey in life that is worth going through.  I have been transformed in many ways, some ways I have struggled, but overall I have been changed by my experience at KAP.  To all those who are thinking about becoming involved with KAP, remember that this is a life-changing experience, there are going to be be times that are going to be tough, but out of this experience you will have a great college experience.


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Friday, March 29, 2013

MADKAP Racing Shirts

They are here.  Four weeks till first event (Country Music Half Marathon, April 27).  We will continue the training as well as raising scholarships funds for and awareness of KAP.  Back to you in a day with the first KAP profile.  Thanks for all the support!


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Thursday, March 14, 2013

What is KAP?

Good question.  What follows isn't necessarily the brochure-crisp overview but a Dad's ground-level view to date.  To tell you what KAP is we first need to know who it is.  KAP is a result of the vision of John & Linda Kelly, Canadian on arrival and Hilltopper community inhabitants three decades running.  Giving an amount of time, effort, and money almost on par with their heart and compassion, they were the catalyst to create a community to provide needed services for their daughter and others.  Many others.  Almost a decade later, KAP serves over 150 elementary, secondary, and higher education students....over 40 alone on the college level.  Considering family members, friends, and fellow students, KAP has touched thousands of lives.  And it's just the start of the Kelly vision of growth and influence that fills a largely recognized need....organizations from spots all over the US map want to know more about how KAP does what it does and how they could do the same.

What do they do?  Well, a lot.  On paper, they offer a college student three main things:  1) a contractual obligation and the resources necessary to participate in organized, scheduled studying four days per week; 2) an assigned (and appraised...and paid...in short, committed and interested) mentor to help ensure not only academic success but a broader integration into the university; and 3) a modified living arrangement, if desired (read: no roommate dynamic).  But, what else do they provide?  Support, growth, accountability, structure, an accepting community, social opportunities, resources, advocacy (both group & self), and fun.  In short, a home away from home.  Often KAP is the difference between a marginal collegiate experience for these young men and women and a positive, fulfilling one.  As Zach, now a junior KAP member who aced the ACT and could have stayed in his hometown to attend an SEC school said as a second semester freshman when we first visited KAP in 2011, "I'm the happiest I've ever been.".

KAP students are full-time university students in every way that other WKU students are.  They apply to and are accepted by WKU in the same manner.  They also apply to, are accepted by, and pay for KAP in addition to WKU.  Which takes us back to why we're raising funds to help create scholarships...to make a difference for those who already find it difficult to address the costs of college and still need and qualify for the services provided by KAP.  Keep checking back...I'll be introducing you to some of the faces of KAP - students and others - so we can hear more from them about this wonderful program.  Thank you for any/all support that you are giving.  And please share the word.
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